How do you unlock the door to your child’s potential in a healthy and affirming way? Our children have been put together by God in a unique way and pointed by him in a unique direction. Our job is to recognize that direction, then encourage and instruct our kids to grow and develop in their God given way.
As a teacher, we use this idea to identify each child’s learning style (auditory, visual or physical). We can also learn from our child’s temperament, skills and talents to determine where they excel.
Our children are not exactly like anyone else – not us, not our spouse, not their siblings. We may see similarities between them and others in appearance, temperament or academics; but children are unique individuals with their own incredible possibilities. Become a student of your child(ren) – study them.
- See the potential
- Offer opportunities for growth
- Set realistic goals
- Support their endeavors
Who knows what the future holds for our children? Only God – the one who has built their boat, charted their course, and who now gives us the privilege of being wind in their sails. As mom, may our positive affirmations, encouragement, and unconditional love help them reach their God given destination.
Heather @ Not a DIY Life says
Great reminder, Rachel. Raising our children is a privilege from God. We need to be good stewards of these gifts He has given us and help them realize their God-given potential.